Actress Nyaboke Moraa has left many speechless with a raw and emotional response to fans urging her to seek professional help after the heartbreaking loss of her daughter. In a tearful video shared online, Moraa opened up about her pain, expressing a grief so deep that therapy, at least for now, feels out of reach.
In July 2024, Moraa and her partner, digital marketer Blak Aende, suffered the devastating loss of their firstborn, Marie Achieng. The couple shared their sorrow on social media, though the cause of death was not revealed. The tragedy was acknowledged by their close circle, and messages of condolence poured in from friends and fans alike.
However, as time has passed, some concerned followers began suggesting that Moraa seek therapy to cope with the trauma. The actress, still grappling with the enormity of her loss, did not take kindly to these suggestions and responded in a deeply emotional video. Her words revealed the internal battle she’s facing, the kind of pain that cannot simply be “fixed” with conventional advice.
“There is nothing as painful as death,” she shared through tears. She explained that she’s not ready for therapy, adding that she feels like her mind hasn’t yet reached a place where it could even process help. “I’m already a therapist for myself,” she said. “A therapist will only tell me things I should tell myself. And they’ll be paid with the same money I need for milk for my children.”
Her message wasn’t just one of defiance but of brutal honesty. Moraa pointed out that seeking help is not as simple as many assume—it requires mental readiness. “A therapist will come in when I’m ready. My brain has not accepted listening to one yet. I must be ready.”
The heartfelt message resonated with many, especially fellow parents and those who’ve experienced personal loss. A wave of support followed her emotional confession, with many expressing understanding rather than judgment.
One person sympathized, saying therapy in Kenya can be extremely expensive, and healing isn’t always tied to professional help. Another user remarked that there isn’t even a word for someone who has lost a child—highlighting just how unspeakable the pain is. “Her pain is valid, and it doesn’t have to make sense to anyone,” one grieving parent wrote in solidarity.
Others reminded people that healing is deeply personal. “There’s a saying that goes, ‘Who feels it, knows it.’ One has to be ready to accept help; otherwise, it won’t work,” another commented.
Amid the heavy grief, Moraa also shared a lighter moment with her young son, Ethan. In a heartwarming post, she revealed a playful exchange between them. Ethan had called, sweetly saying he missed her, only to cleverly pivot the conversation to ask for money. Moraa laughed at the familiar parental tactic, noting how he affectionately calls her “beautiful” when making a request but usually addresses her as “We mzee” on regular days. The humorous anecdote struck a chord with many parents, who chimed in with similar experiences of their children’s charming strategies.
Even in the midst of profound grief, Moraa’s honesty, vulnerability, and moments of levity show the multifaceted nature of mourning. Her story is a poignant reminder that everyone heals differently, and sometimes, all a grieving heart needs is time, space, and understanding.
