Popular content creator and father of two, Baba Talisha, has opened up about a deeply personal reason why he has not yet paid dowry for his current partner, Miss Wanjey. Despite being in a committed relationship and recently welcoming their second child together, he admitted that he is yet to make the official introduction or visit her family — a cultural expectation in many Kenyan communities.
In a candid response to a fan during an Instagram Q&A, Baba Talisha revealed that his decision is not due to negligence or disrespect but is rooted in a solemn vow he made to his late wife, Milka, the mother of his first child. He shared that the weight of that promise continues to guide his decisions, even in his new relationship.
According to him, the dowry for his first wife was never fully settled, and before her untimely passing, he vowed to honour that obligation. He expressed that until he fulfills that promise, his spirit cannot rest or move forward entirely, even as he continues to raise a family with his second partner.
“Some people may not understand, but my heart knows the reason. It’s not about disrespecting the woman I love now — it’s about keeping a promise I made to the woman I once loved and lost. That vow still weighs heavy on my soul. Until I honour it, I won’t feel right,” he shared emotionally.
His sentiments stirred mixed reactions on social media. Some praised his loyalty and sense of responsibility, while others questioned the fairness of his actions toward his current partner. Critics argued that while his grief and past promise are valid, withholding dowry payments while already having children with Miss Wanjey sends mixed signals and may appear unjust to her.
One user expressed concern, saying that it seems contradictory to go as far as starting a family but hesitate to fulfill cultural formalities like dowry. Another noted that while the pain of loss is understandable, using it to delay key commitments in a new relationship might cause emotional strain on the current partner.
Others, however, viewed his action as a rare expression of undying love and integrity, applauding the depth of commitment he still holds for his late wife. They argued that such emotional ties are complex and deserve compassion, not criticism.
This revelation comes after Baba Talisha’s recent decision to unveil his current partner’s identity, albeit reluctantly. For a while, Miss Wanjey had opted to remain anonymous, but fans eventually pieced together her identity after a party celebrating their son.
Baba Talisha’s journey has not been an easy one. He previously recounted the tragic accident that claimed his late wife’s life. On that fateful day, he had been driving with her and their daughter when another vehicle rammed into them. The devastating event changed his life forever, leaving emotional scars that, to this day, influence his decisions and relationships.
His story continues to stir conversations around grief, remarriage, and how promises made in love can echo far beyond the life of a relationship. While the public may be divided in their opinions, one thing is clear — Baba Talisha is navigating his journey in a way that feels true to his heart, even when it defies social expectations.
