TikToker and social media personality Baba Talisha recently found himself at the center of a heated conversation online after exposing a disturbing message he received from a fan. The message, which targeted his wife with tribal undertones, brought up outdated stereotypes about marriage and ethnicity—topics that continue to plague many public figures in Kenya.
In a bold move, Baba Talisha took to social media to share screenshots of the direct message he received via WhatsApp. The message questioned his decision to marry someone from a particular tribe, insinuating that women from that community were known for altering a man’s character. Instead of responding angrily, Baba Talisha took a calm and educational approach. He posted the screenshot on his Instagram story with the caption, “Ona huyu sasa. Stop this stereotype,” adding a few laughing emojis to underline his composure.
The controversy emerged just days after Baba Talisha had finally confirmed the identity of his wife, Stellar Wanjey, a topic that had long been the subject of online speculation. For months, followers had wondered why he never showcased her on his platforms, with many assuming he was hiding her identity. However, the couple later explained that the decision to keep their relationship private was mutual and intended to shield their union from unnecessary public scrutiny.
The tribal comment came at a time when many fans had just started appreciating the couple’s openness. While the negative message could have caused a major online altercation, Baba Talisha’s choice to respond with maturity won him praise. Many fans were quick to commend him for choosing peace and using the opportunity to address deep-seated prejudices rather than spark more conflict.
Reactions from his followers poured in quickly, with many applauding his calm demeanor and standing up against tribalism. Some praised his wife for being a supportive figure and for stepping into her role with grace, especially considering her position as a stepmother to his daughter, Talisha. Others condemned the sender of the hateful message and expressed their disappointment in the continued existence of tribal biases in modern relationships.
In a related development, Baba Talisha’s daughter, Baby Talisha Truphena, shared a heartfelt tribute on social media. In her emotional message, she expressed gratitude toward her stepmother, acknowledging the love and care she had received since her biological mother’s passing. She thanked her stepmother for treating her with kindness and affection, crediting her with playing a huge role in her emotional well-being.
The situation, while painful, served as a reminder of the lingering impact of tribalism in Kenyan society. Yet it also became a platform for healing and advocacy, as Baba Talisha used the moment to encourage his followers to embrace unity and love beyond tribal boundaries. His thoughtful and composed response showed that grace under fire could dismantle hate and spark positive conversations online.
