Outspoken Kenyan preacher Bishop Ben Kiengei has once again stirred online discussion after declaring during a Sunday service that he is married to one wife — and she is a woman. The statement, made in the middle of a spirited sermon, drew laughter, cheers, and mixed reactions from Kenyans online, with many interpreting it as a subtle response to the ongoing national debate on sexuality.
In a now-viral video, Bishop Kiengei proudly introduced his wife, Reverend Joy, to the congregation. “My name is Bishop Ben, and I am married to one wife. If it’s you I’ve married, stand up. You can all see her — my wife is a woman,” he proclaimed, prompting applause from church members. He then showered her with praise, affectionately calling her his “lover,” “sweetheart,” and “my thing.”
Public Display of Love and Faith
Bishop Kiengei and Reverend Joy have been married for nine years and share two children — Arsene and June. The bishop also co-parents peacefully with his ex-wife, Keziah wa Kariuki, with whom he has a 10-year-old daughter. Their joint celebration of their daughter’s recent birthday was widely praised as an example of healthy co-parenting and maturity after separation.
Just a day after the viral sermon, the bishop once again introduced his wife during Kaluma Boy’s thanksgiving service held at JCM Church headquarters in Nairobi. Beaming with pride, he said, “Mimi najua kuchagua,” meaning “I know how to choose.” Reverend Joy also took to the podium to thank the church and Gen Z congregants for their growing support, calling for unity and peace in the nation.
Mixed Online Reactions
As expected, Kenyans online had plenty to say. Some interpreted the bishop’s declaration as a lighthearted dig at current LGBTQ+ debates, while others viewed it as a public celebration of traditional marriage. Social media users flooded platforms with humorous takes, with comments like “Bibi yangu ni mwanamke — this got me!” and “Our bishop knows how to choose!” trending across X (formerly Twitter) and TikTok.
Addressing Past Rumors
Bishop Kiengei’s comments also come amid previous online rumors suggesting he had been unfaithful — claims he has firmly denied. He has repeatedly emphasized that he remains devoted to one wife and is focused on his ministry and family. Reverend Joy has also spoken out against the gossip, affirming her trust in her husband and her commitment to their marriage.
A Testament to Love and Commitment
The couple’s visible unity and mutual support have earned them admiration from both church members and online followers. Many have applauded Bishop Kiengei for openly honoring his wife and for using his platform to promote love, loyalty, and family values. His bold declaration, though humorous, underscores his commitment to his marriage and his beliefs.
As conversations around faith, family, and modern relationships continue in Kenya, Bishop Kiengei’s viral moment serves as a reminder that love — and laughter — still hold a special place in the pulpit.
