Actor Blessing Lung’aho is under fire from the public following fresh allegations by his ex and fellow actor Jackie Matubia. The actress recently opened up about their relationship, calling it toxic and accusing him of neglecting their child. Her candid revelations sparked outrage online, especially after Blessing shared a video flaunting his luxurious weekend at a Range Rover owners’ gathering.
The timing of his post—showing off a lifestyle filled with sleek cars and expensive company—struck a nerve with many netizens, especially in light of the claims made by Jackie. Her interview painted a picture of a man who not only failed to support his child but also expected her to shoulder the entire financial burden of their household.
Social media quickly lit up with criticism. Users flooded Blessing’s comment section, calling him out for enjoying flashy events while allegedly failing in his fatherly responsibilities. Some pointed out the irony of associating with wealthy, responsible men while neglecting his own child. Others were brutally direct, reminding him that fatherhood doesn’t end with fame or social status.
In the interview, Jackie revealed she had paid all the bills during their time together, despite Blessing living under the same roof. She went on to share how, just after giving birth and still in the hospital, she was contacted and asked to pay for cooking gas at home—an act she found insensitive and deeply frustrating, as it meant her other child might go without food if she didn’t act.
Jackie also alleged that while Blessing showed affection to their daughter when she arrived home, his overall actions didn’t match the love he claimed to have. She recalled how hopeful she had been that things would improve, only to be constantly triggered by his behavior.
Kenyans online didn’t hold back. Many scolded Blessing for prioritizing luxury and public appearances over his duties as a father. Some made sarcastic remarks about his spending habits, suggesting that he seemed more interested in saving for a Range Rover than providing for his child. Others highlighted that responsible fatherhood isn’t just about presence but about being actively involved—financially, emotionally, and practically.
Adding to the backlash was the revelation that Blessing allegedly has two children. Jackie disclosed that he had a child from a previous relationship and had once promised to love their child even more, claiming he hadn’t been in love when the first was born. But after they had a baby together, she says his behavior did not reflect that sentiment.
Eventually, Jackie said she reached a breaking point. Despite her efforts to stay hopeful and believing he might change, the continuous emotional strain and lack of support pushed her to walk away from the relationship.
The wave of reactions from Kenyans showcases a growing intolerance toward absentee parenting, especially from public figures who are perceived to glamorize wealth while allegedly neglecting their family responsibilities. Many have demanded accountability and urged the actor to step up and prioritize his children.
In the eyes of the public, no amount of fame or luxury can excuse neglect. The message was clear: support your child first, then celebrate.
