Dr. Ofweneke recently opened up about a painful chapter from his past, recalling how he was dumped by his ex-girlfriend, Joy, after buying her a KSh 150 bracelet, well before his fame as a comedian. The comedian revealed that the breakup took place during a church crossover service, and it was a defining moment in his journey toward success.
According to Ofweneke, Joy was once the love of his life, but she decided to walk away when he was struggling in his early career. At the time, he had just earned KSh 250 from his first-ever paid gig as an emcee at Riruta Baptist Church. Feeling optimistic and filled with affection, he used KSh 150 of his earnings to purchase a bracelet for Joy, hoping it would be a meaningful gift that would express his love. However, the evening unfolded in a way he never expected.
During the crossover service at Winners Chapel, Joy ended their relationship. In a heart-wrenching moment, she told him, “You are a nice guy, but I don’t have the patience to see this comedy grow.” Ofweneke shared how devastating this rejection was for him, especially after the effort he put into buying her the bracelet. He recalled retreating to the church washroom, where he broke down in tears, feeling utterly heartbroken.
Despite the pain of the breakup, Ofweneke reflected on how much his life has changed since then. Over the years, he has become a renowned figure in the entertainment industry. He now uses his experiences to offer advice to women, encouraging them to be patient with their partners, particularly when they are still working hard to achieve their dreams. “Sixteen years down the line, God has blessed me. I wished she would relax. Women, relax, you never know. Stick to that man (poor) because he might be destined for greatness,” he shared, offering a message of hope for women to support their partners even when times are tough.
Beyond his career, Dr. Ofweneke also shared a recent family milestone. His daughter, whom he co-parents with gospel singer Nicah the Queen, has officially joined Grade 9. The proud parents took to social media to celebrate their daughter’s academic achievement. Both shared heartfelt messages of love and pride, expressing how amazed they were at their daughter’s growth. In a touching post, Ofweneke expressed his prayers for her as she embarks on this new chapter of her education.
The post was met with admiration from fans who praised the comedian and Nicah the Queen for their mature and respectful co-parenting arrangement. Many found inspiration in their ability to put aside any differences to focus on providing a loving and supportive environment for their daughter.
Dr. Ofweneke’s journey from heartbreak to success, as well as his dedication to his family, has made him a figure of resilience and hope. His message to young couples and women in particular resonates strongly, reminding them that patience and support can help bring out the best in their partners, even when success seems far off.