Award-winning actress Jackie Matubia recently stirred up a buzz online after making candid remarks about her past relationship with fellow actor Blessing Lung’aho. During a heartfelt and pointed conversation, Jackie alleged that she was the one financially supporting their relationship, claiming that her ex used to live in her house but failed to contribute financially. She revealed that despite an agreement where Blessing would pay the rent while she covered the remaining household expenses, he often made excuses about not receiving payments for his gigs.
The actress did not hold back in expressing her frustrations, stating that the burden of responsibility and lack of partnership contributed to their eventual breakup. Jackie further stated that she had been advised to stay quiet, especially since people already criticized her for having children from different fathers. However, she said silence never protected her from judgment, and this time, she chose to speak out not just for herself, but to empower other women going through similar experiences.
Jackie emphasized that she is now in a better place emotionally and financially. She noted that while some people continue to attack her online, others are missing the point of her revelations. According to her, sharing her journey is about shedding light on the real struggles many single mothers face—not about shaming her ex. She strongly defended her right to speak her truth, especially when it involves the well-being of her children.
In response to critics who suggested she should focus on her children and career instead of revisiting her past, Jackie was quick to point out that her children are well cared for and thriving. She challenged anyone questioning her parenting or progress to take a real look at her life now. She said that while she may have lost a partner, she gained strength and clarity, which helped propel her into the successful space she now occupies.
Addressing her ex directly and with sarcasm, Jackie stated that if anything, he should be thankful she is even mentioning him because it helps keep his name relevant. She dismissed claims that she was tarnishing someone’s brand, suggesting instead that staying silent while carrying the weight alone would have been far more damaging.
Her post quickly drew a flood of reactions from Kenyans online. While some sympathized with her and praised her for speaking out, others accused her of dragging a private matter into the public eye. Still, others humorously commented on the irony of how some people try to silence women even when they’re sharing their truth.
The former couple, who have a daughter together, are reportedly not co-parenting. Jackie disclosed that she had tried involving Blessing in their child’s life, but he allegedly declined the opportunity. Despite this, she expressed a strong commitment to raising her children well, with or without the involvement of her former partner.
The public nature of Jackie’s statements has once again sparked debate on gender roles, financial dynamics in relationships, and the expectations placed on women in the entertainment industry. As the conversation continues online, Jackie remains unapologetic—standing firmly by her decision to speak her truth, not only for herself but for those who may feel voiceless.
