Jackie Matubia has opened up about her journey through marriage, motherhood, and the emotional challenges she has faced along the way. The celebrated actress recently reflected on her decision to get married at the age of 23, sharing the motivations behind it and how the experience shaped her.
Speaking candidly on a reality show, she revealed that she was eager to transition from living in hostels to settling down with a husband. The idea of building a family appealed to her deeply, especially as some of her close friends were already married and raising children. That desire for stability and companionship pushed her into marriage early, and while the union didn’t last, she holds no regrets.
“I got married at 23 because I genuinely wanted to,” she said. “It didn’t work out, but I was okay with that. What I miss the most is raising a child with someone you love—it’s such an amazing experience.”
She also opened up about her experience with her second relationship, which ended shortly after the birth of her second child. Jackie lamented that her youngest daughter didn’t get to enjoy a father figure the way her firstborn briefly did. She recalled how she once pleaded with her second baby daddy not to abandon their daughter, but her appeals were ignored. Despite the pain, she emphasized that every experience—good or bad—has contributed to who she is today.
“I don’t regret anything I went through. The pain, the hurt, even the violence—it all made me stronger and taught me a lot about myself,” she stated.
Although her past relationships didn’t work out, Jackie hasn’t lost hope in love. Earlier this year, she expressed her wish to find a peaceful and secure relationship. She even light-heartedly invited potential suitors to send in their “CVs,” hinting at her readiness to start a new chapter in her romantic life.
Jackie also shared her goals for the year, including buying her own house and embracing self-love. She extended her well wishes to fans hoping for love and peace in their own lives.
Her story resonated with many on social media. Several women related to her experiences of longing for a loving family but ending up in relationships that didn’t meet those expectations. Others encouraged her, expressing hope that she will one day find the love she deserves. Many echoed the sentiment that marriage is a journey of grace and patience, and that healing is possible for those whose relationships haven’t worked out.
Jackie’s reflections reveal the strength of a woman who, despite setbacks, continues to pursue love, growth, and a better future for herself and her children.
