A viral video featuring Kenyan content creator Kabi WaJesus referring to his wife Milly WaJesus as “fala mkubwa” has stirred mixed reactions across social media. The short clip, which quickly spread on TikTok and X (formerly Twitter), shows Kabi playfully responding to critics who claim that “marriage hubamba mafala,” a slang phrase implying that marriage only appeals to “fools.”
The Viral Moment
In the lighthearted clip, Kabi is seen joking with his wife while addressing those who mock marriage. Laughing, he says, “Huyu bibi yangu ni fala sana. Unaamini aje mtu unaanza kumzalia hio ni ufala!” Milly, seated beside him, bursts into laughter, clearly taking the remark as part of their usual banter rather than an insult.
While the couple shared a playful moment, reactions online were divided. Some fans viewed the interaction as harmless humor between two people comfortable with each other, while others criticized the language as disrespectful and inappropriate for a public figure.
Fans Divided Over the Remark
Supporters of the WaJesus Family defended Kabi, noting that the couple’s content often blends humor, honesty, and real-life marriage experiences. They argued that the moment was typical of their comedic style, which aims to show that marriage can be imperfect yet joyful and full of laughter.
However, critics expressed concern that such remarks could normalize disrespect within relationships, especially when made publicly. Some social media users said that even playful language can send the wrong message to young followers who admire the couple’s Christian-based lifestyle.
The “Marriage Hubamba Mafala” Debate
The expression “marriage hubamba mafala” — popularized by comedian and influencer Chebet Ronoh — has become a viral saying across Kenyan digital spaces. It’s often used by skeptics to mock couples who romanticize marriage online.
Kabi’s comment seemed intended to flip the narrative, using humor to challenge critics while showing pride in his own marriage. Several Kenyan celebrities have since weighed in on the broader discussion, emphasizing that marriage is a personal journey shaped by faith, communication, and maturity.
The Couple’s Signature Humor
This isn’t the first time Kabi and Milly WaJesus have stirred conversation with their content. Known for blending humor with Christian values, the duo often shares candid moments about love, parenting, and faith through their YouTube channel and social media platforms.
Despite occasional backlash, their authenticity continues to earn them a massive following. Whether humorous or controversial, their interactions consistently spotlight the delicate balance between humor, respect, and vulnerability in modern relationships.
