Mama Jimmy, the wife of popular former Kitale-based missionary Isaiah—widely known online as Baba Jimmy—has candidly opened up about her past regrets in their marriage, especially during her pregnancy. Now living in the US with their children, the couple shared their reflections on marriage in a heartfelt conversation, with Mama Jimmy admitting there were moments when she questioned her decision to marry.
The mother of two revealed that her regret wasn’t about marrying a Mzungu, nor was it tied to wealth as many might assume. Instead, it stemmed from how her husband handled things during her pregnancy, particularly his overprotectiveness. She said he would insist on giving her medicine and water right after she had vomited, something that left her feeling even worse and emotionally overwhelmed at the time.
“Honestly, there were times I regretted it. I wouldn’t lie. I was struggling with the pregnancy, and every time I’d throw up, he would rush to give me medicine and water. That made me feel really uncomfortable,” she confessed. “In those moments, I’d wonder if I had made the right choice getting married.”
Despite this, Mama Jimmy emphasized that her feelings were not rooted in resentment but rather in frustration due to the physical and emotional toll of pregnancy. She clarified that many people might misinterpret her statements and think she regretted the relationship because her husband wasn’t wealthy, but that wasn’t the case at all.
“People might think I regretted it because he didn’t have money or wasn’t wealthy. That’s not true,” she said. “My regret was purely emotional. I didn’t understand then that he was just trying to help.”
Over time, Mama Jimmy said she came to appreciate her husband’s intentions, realizing he was simply concerned about her health. What initially felt like nagging later made sense as a genuine attempt to care for her.
“I used to feel like he didn’t understand me, that he wasn’t being considerate. But looking back, I now see that he was trying to support me in the only way he knew how,” she explained.
The couple’s journey has touched many, especially those who follow their love story online. Their content often features glimpses into their family life, their children, and their day-to-day experiences as an interracial couple navigating life in a new country.
Their relationship began years ago when Mama Jimmy’s brother introduced Isaiah to the family. The two developed a friendship that blossomed over three years before they eventually tied the knot. Although their first wedding was modest, Isaiah later surprised his wife with a grand gesture. After relocating to the US and finding a job, he proposed to her again on a boat cruise in Tennessee, this time with a luxurious ring that brought her to tears.
Fans have often commented on how close the couple seems and how they’ve grown together through challenges. There was even chatter online about Mama Jimmy’s accent changing after a brief stay in the US, though netizens were more amused by how quickly their son picked up the American twang.
Ultimately, Mama Jimmy’s honesty about her brief moments of regret served as a reminder that even strong relationships have ups and downs. Her openness resonated with many, with fans expressing support and appreciation for her vulnerability.
