Saumu Mbuvi, the eldest daughter of former Nairobi governor Mike Sonko, has given a rare glimpse into her personal life following her relocation to Dubai. In a recent social media post, the mother of two opened up about some major decisions she made in the past, including cancelling a Muslim wedding (Nikaah) and two traditional introductions. Her revelation has since sparked a wave of reactions online.
Sharing her story through a trending video challenge centered on privacy and untold stories, Saumu revealed that she once hired a private investigator to dig into the backgrounds of the men she was set to marry. What the investigator uncovered, she says, led her to walk away from the relationships before making lifelong commitments.
She captioned the video with a candid admission: “Life is so private that no one knows I cancelled two introductions and a Nikaah after I hired a private investigator on these men. It can never be me.” Her post struck a chord with many, triggering both praise and debate among social media users.
One user applauded her financial ability to hire an investigator, saying many rely solely on their instincts and dreams to make such crucial decisions. Others humorously chimed in, mentioning how they receive revelations about their partners through dreams or spiritual intuition. A few users offered deeper reflections, with one encouraging her to become a vocal advocate against gender-based violence, while others questioned whether investigators could always be trusted to provide honest information.
Despite the mixed reactions, a recurring theme in the comments was admiration for her strength and refusal to settle in the name of love. Several people applauded her for taking control of her future and not ignoring red flags, even when wedding plans were already underway.
In addition to the revelations about her past relationships, Saumu also shared the reasons behind her decision to leave Kenya and start a new chapter in Dubai. She cited safety as one of the primary factors, explaining how she feels freer and more secure walking alone at night in the city. The enhanced security and lifestyle appealed to her as a woman and a mother.
Moreover, she expressed enthusiasm about Dubai’s status as a global tech hub. With aspirations to grow her ideas and expand her network, she felt the move aligned with her ambitions. The fast-paced innovation environment provided the perfect setting to challenge herself and explore new opportunities.
Some online followers expressed admiration for her bold move, with a few even asking her to help them find job opportunities abroad. Others were curious about whether her children would soon be joining her in the UAE.
Her story has sparked conversations about modern relationships, red flags, emotional intelligence, and the growing acceptance of background checks in dating and marriage. It also highlights how some women are choosing to prioritize personal peace and purpose over societal expectations.
Saumu’s revelations not only resonated with those navigating complex relationships but also served as a reminder that walking away from the wrong path — no matter how far along — is sometimes the most empowering choice.
