Suba North Member of Parliament Millie Odhiambo has opened up about her marriage, revealing that her husband, Mabona Magugu, never paid dowry for her — a decision she says reflects her personal beliefs about love, value, and commitment.
A Marriage Built on Conviction and Choice
Millie, who has been married to her Zimbabwean husband for several years, said she chose to forgo the traditional dowry payment, explaining that her love could not be equated to material or symbolic exchanges. The outspoken legislator noted that while she respects communities that uphold the practice, she personally views love and mutual respect as the true foundation of marriage.
“When I love a man, a simple word of ‘I love you and I commit to you’ suffices,” she said. “An exchange of vows publicly shows commitment to stay together. But equating my worth to cows is a no for me.”
Redefining Tradition and Modern Love
Her remarks came amid renewed public debate on dowry customs following recent discussions surrounding public figures and their marriage traditions. Millie clarified that her stance is not a rejection of African culture but a personal conviction rooted in equality, faith, and personal choice.
How Her Husband Captured Her Heart
The legislator fondly recalled how Mabona captured her heart in an unexpected way — by bringing a Bible to their first meeting. “It may not have been romantic to some, but for me, that Bible spoke volumes about his character and faith,” she said, adding that it resonated deeply with her values as a committed Christian.
Private Love, Public Admiration
Despite choosing to keep much of their relationship private, Millie often shares her appreciation for Mabona on social media, describing him as supportive and loving. He maintains a low profile but has occasionally appeared in public to celebrate his wife’s milestones — including attending her 2024 book launch, where he publicly professed his love.
Public Reaction to Her Views
Following Millie’s comments, Kenyans online expressed mixed reactions. Some agreed with her, saying that dowry has lost its traditional meaning and become overly commercialized. Others defended the practice as a lasting symbol of respect and cultural heritage in African marriages.
A Matter of Personal Principle
Millie emphasized that her decision was guided by personal principles rather than cultural rebellion. “I respect those who choose that path. It’s just not a thing for me,” she stated. “Should I leave Mabona or should he leave me, no cows shall be seen walking from or to anywhere related to me.”
