Kamba musician Ndeke Ya Muthanga has ignited widespread debate online after making controversial remarks about his wife’s role in their household. Known for his energetic performances and vibrant personality, the artist declared that his wife’s work is to “stay at home and give birth,” a statement that has drawn both criticism and support in equal measure.
From Viral Dancer to Controversial Figure
Ndeke, who shot to fame after viral videos showed him twerking in Ukambani markets, has become a social media sensation for his bold dance moves and humor. Despite criticism from some quarters questioning his masculinity, the singer has consistently stated that he is happily married and that his wife fully supports his artistic expression.
The Interview That Sparked the Backlash
The musician recently gained national recognition when he performed during the Mashujaa Day celebrations in Kitui, attended by President William Ruto. However, during a recent interview with comedian Oga Obinna, Ndeke stirred controversy after being asked about his wife’s professional life. His blunt response immediately sparked strong reactions online.
“What does the Bible say? What is the work of a woman and what is the work of a man? The work of a woman is to stay in the house and give birth. Do not make her work. Let her stay in the house and have babies. You go hustle for her,” Ndeke said. When pressed on how many children he has, he declined to answer, saying only that “the kids are mine.”
Public Reaction: Divided Opinions Online
The comments quickly went viral, with social media users divided over the issue. Some defended his traditional stance, praising him for being honest about his beliefs, while others criticized his views as outdated and dismissive of women’s autonomy. One user wrote, “Did he just say, ‘azae zae tu hapo’? He’s really testing my patience.” Another added, “I love this guy, he is very honest. At least he is saying what many people think but are afraid to say.”
Gender Equality Concerns
Others pointed out the dangers of normalizing such statements, warning that they perpetuate gender inequality and limit women’s potential. “After a while, you become ‘useless’ to a man because he starts thinking he owns your life,” one commenter wrote, highlighting the deep societal concerns that such views reinforce.
Reconciliation and Continued Popularity
Beyond the controversy, Ndeke remains a popular figure in the Kamba gospel music scene. He recently reconciled with fellow singer Stephen Kasolo after a public feud that had divided their fan bases. The two were seen performing together during an event in Kitui, marking a symbolic gesture of peace and unity within their community.
Ongoing Debate on Gender Roles
Despite the backlash, Ndeke continues to entertain his growing audience with the same confidence that made him a household name. His remarks, however, have kept the conversation on gender roles and cultural expectations alive across Kenya, underscoring the tension between tradition and modern perspectives on equality.
