A heated debate recently emerged online after claims surfaced suggesting Amber Ray appeared intoxicated during a music video shoot. The claims sparked a wave of public scrutiny and commentary, but not everyone was willing to sit by quietly and watch. One vocal defender came forward with a passionate message—an unapologetic takedown of those quick to cast judgment on Amber’s personal life, with a particular focus on comedian Obinna.
In a no-nonsense rebuttal, Nyako fiercely criticised the scrutiny aimed at Amber Ray, arguing that her personal choices and lifestyle are entirely her own and not open for public dissection. She expressed firm disapproval of the way some online personalities have chosen to involve themselves in matters that, she believes, are private and irrelevant to anyone outside the couple’s relationship.
The controversy arose after reports emerged claiming that Amber Ray arrived at a music video set appearing intoxicated. While some found this behaviour questionable, others, like Nyako, viewed the public reaction as overblown and intrusive. She dismissed the incident entirely, stating that such matters are personal and should remain between Amber and her husband, Kennedy Rapudo.
Nyako made it clear that unless a spouse openly expresses discontent or seeks public intervention, outsiders have no grounds to interfere. She questioned the need for online personalities to publicly demand explanations or offer unsolicited opinions on someone’s private life.
“Whether she’s drunk in the market or cooking in her kitchen is her business,” she argued. “It’s not the public’s role to expect accountability from people they don’t live with.”
Further defending Amber, Nyako pointed out that there has never been any indication from Rapudo that he is unhappy with his wife’s conduct. In fact, she argued, the available public images and videos of the couple tell a very different story—one of harmony and domestic contentment. She highlighted footage that shows Amber engaged in homemaking activities, such as preparing meals and serving her husband with affection, suggesting that theirs is a peaceful, functioning household.
She went on to question why anyone, particularly Obinna, feels entitled to critique or question Amber’s actions when the person most affected—her partner—is seemingly content. According to Nyako, relationship dynamics are complex, and unless someone is being harmed or raising concerns, it’s unnecessary—and even harmful—for outsiders to insert themselves into the narrative.
Her passionate statements underscored a broader message about respecting boundaries and recognising the importance of privacy, especially in relationships. She emphasised that public figures, despite living in the spotlight, are still entitled to personal lives that aren’t constantly under the microscope.
With her direct approach, Nyako turned the focus back to those who rush to pass judgment. Her defence wasn’t just about Amber—it was a stand against what she sees as a growing culture of unwarranted public interference in people’s lives, calling instead for respect, discretion, and a willingness to let people live on their own terms.
