During the State Burial Mass of his brother, former Prime Minister Raila Amolo Odinga, a moment of unexpected humour and authenticity emerged when Dr Oburu Oginga publicly introduced his two wives before a packed crowd at Nyayo National Stadium.
“I Am a General” — Oburu’s Humorous Introduction
As dignitaries, leaders, and citizens gathered to honour Raila Odinga’s life and legacy, Dr Oginga’s turn to speak quickly became one of the most talked-about moments of the ceremony. Standing before mourners, he proudly declared, “I am a general,” before adding that he was accompanied by both of his wives — a revelation that drew laughter and surprise from the audience.
He explained his decision to introduce them publicly with characteristic wit, saying, “If I don’t introduce them to you, they might feel jealous and refuse to give me food.” The lighthearted remark brought smiles to many faces, momentarily easing the tension of the solemn occasion.
Honouring His First Wife
Dr Oginga then turned to his elder wife, whom he introduced warmly to the crowd. He spoke of her loyalty and long-standing companionship, describing her as “the lady who took me out of boyhood.” His words reflected deep respect and appreciation for the decades they had shared together — a testament to enduring love and partnership.
A Candid Explanation for His Second Marriage
Addressing his decision to marry a second wife, Dr Oginga spoke openly and with humour. He explained that as he advanced in age, he sought companionship and wished to relieve his first wife of the many responsibilities she had carried for years.
With his trademark humour, he added that he “did not want her to scratch or massage” him anymore — a quip that once again sent ripples of laughter through the audience. He clarified that his second wife joined the family as both a helper and a companion, emphasizing that the decision stemmed from love and care rather than conflict.
A Lighthearted Moment Amid National Grief
Dr Oginga’s remarks, blending affection, wit, and honesty, offered a rare moment of relief during an emotionally charged ceremony. His openness in celebrating both wives reflected not only his personal character but also cultural acceptance of polygamy in certain Kenyan traditions.
Amid mourning and tributes to his late brother, his speech reminded mourners of the enduring strength of family, humour, and humanity — values that continue to resonate deeply in Kenya’s social fabric.
