YouTuber and media personality Oga Obinna has shared a deeply emotional account of a past relationship that left him heartbroken during his early days in radio. Known for his candid reflections on life, Obinna revealed the depth of his pain, explaining how betrayal affected him profoundly while he tried to maintain professionalism on air.
Hiding Heartbreak on Air
Obinna recounted the intensity of his emotions, describing moments when he would conceal his tears with dark sunglasses and retreat to the restroom to cry during breaks. “The fader would be up, and I would be laughing with Chito, and whenever the fader went down, I would be back. I’d go cry in the toilet, come back again, because I loved this person so much. I cared about this person, and I thought that making them happy and defining my life around them was my purpose. And I expected the same from them,” he explained.
Empathy and Betrayal
Reflecting on his approach to relationships, Obinna emphasized his natural inclination to support and uplift partners. He shared that he often helped his partners achieve their goals, including starting businesses and creating opportunities for their success. “Little did I know, for them I was a means to an end. The person was showing me their colours all along, but remember, the empath, I was making excuses. Personally, I am a builder. I build people up. Even in relationships, all my exes, I never left them where I found them,” he said.
Public Scrutiny and Reflection
Obinna’s revelations come after his ex, Lizz, publicly discussed aspects of their past relationship, sparking debates online about his dating life. Fans offered support and advice, while some encouraged him to focus on younger partners. The discussions highlighted the pressures public figures face when personal matters become subject to social media scrutiny.
Prioritizing Family and Personal Growth
Following his emotional experiences and public attention, Obinna explained that his current focus is on financial stability and raising his five children. The discovery of his fifth child, three months after her birth, reinforced his commitment to family and personal growth, shaping his approach to relationships moving forward.
Lessons Learned
Through his candid account, Oga Obinna offered insight into the challenges of balancing empathy, love, and betrayal. His story underscores the resilience required to heal while continuing to invest in the happiness and well-being of others, highlighting how personal experiences profoundly influence one’s perspective on relationships.
