Pastor Victor Kanyari has once again stirred controversy after leaking WhatsApp conversations with his late wife, gospel singer Betty Bayo, who passed away from leukaemia on November 10. Her burial on November 20 drew family, friends, and prominent figures, but Kanyari’s actions have shifted public attention to private family matters.
Leaked Chats Reveal Financial Requests
In the screenshots shared by Kanyari, Betty requested financial support for their children. Messages indicated she asked for funds to cover medical expenses for their daughter and KSh 8,000 for their son’s school fees. Other requests included KSh 40,000 and KSh 20,000 for a UK visa and a summer camp for their daughter. She attached documents and a poster showing the total camp cost in pounds, emphasizing the urgency.
Betty acknowledged receiving some funds and reminded Kanyari to provide documents needed for their daughter’s travel to the UK, including a passport photo and a six-month bank statement. Despite these requests, the screenshots suggest Kanyari did not respond to her messages.
Public Reaction and Criticism
The public response has been overwhelmingly critical. Many Kenyans condemned Kanyari for sharing private conversations, urging him to address such matters through legal channels if he wishes to demonstrate his role as a responsible parent. Social media users argued that exposing these personal chats was inappropriate and potentially harmful to their children, with comments highlighting concerns about disrespecting Bayo’s memory.
Custody Disputes and Ongoing Tensions
Reports indicate Kanyari was recorded discussing his desire to obtain custody of the children, alleging that Betty’s widower, Hiram Gitau, also known as Tash, was complicating the process. This has further fueled debates online, as Kenyans closely monitor the unfolding custody dispute.
The situation underscores the tensions between Kanyari and Tash over the care of Bayo’s children. While some view Kanyari’s actions as asserting his parental role, many believe sensitive matters should be handled privately or through the courts rather than on social media.
Concerns About Privacy and Responsibility
The controversy has prompted discussions about the ethics of sharing private family information, respect for the deceased, and responsible parenting. Many observers emphasize the need to protect the children from public scrutiny while navigating custody issues.
As the situation unfolds, public opinion continues to highlight the importance of discretion, legal channels, and prioritizing the well-being of children in family disputes.
