The ongoing drama between comedian Mulamwah and his ex-girlfriend and baby mama, Ruth K, has taken an intense and deeply personal turn. What started as a quiet exchange of online jabs quickly evolved into a heated and very public feud, drawing the attention of many.
In a shocking development, Mulamwah leaked a private video allegedly sent by Ruth, exposing her in a compromising situation. The move sparked immediate outrage, with many condemning it as a gross violation of privacy. Surprisingly, Ruth responded by confirming that she had, at one point in their relationship, shared explicit content with him.
Rather than retaliate, Ruth chose a path that many didn’t expect. Despite revealing that she also has intimate photos and videos of Mulamwah, she firmly stated that she would not return the favour by leaking them. Her decision, she explained, was driven by her desire to protect her son from future embarrassment and maintain her dignity.
“It’s not that I don’t have worse things I could share—I do. But out of respect for my son, and because he’s still the father of my child, I will not do wrong,” she wrote in a heartfelt message. She also noted that she’s fully aware of the legal consequences involved in such actions, adding, “I’ll leave it here, not because I am weak, but because I choose dignity over revenge.”
In a longer message, Ruth opened up about how draining the online feud has been. She admitted to regretting the public nature of the spat but emphasized that her son is now her biggest focus. The experience, she said, had pushed her to step back from the chaos and realign herself with her personal growth and brand.
“As a single mom, raising my son is both my greatest responsibility and my biggest blessing. He’s the reason I fight so hard, the reason I want to become a better woman, and the reason I’m choosing to step back and focus on what truly matters—him, my growth, and my peace,” she said.
Ruth concluded by thanking those who have stood by her and hinted that this marks a significant turning point in her life, where she’s choosing to rise above negativity and embrace maturity.
The online community had mixed reactions. While some praised Ruth for taking the high road, others couldn’t help but throw in some cheeky humour. One user joked about the ordeal saying, “From toothless Ruth to Ruthless Mulamwah,” while another added, “Indeed, date a comedian at your own risk—he’ll make comedy out of your pain.”
This digital war was initially sparked when Mulamwah shared personal photos of Ruth and their son, prompting her to reveal their child’s real name for the first time and aim subtle jabs at him. Mulamwah later accused Ruth of falsely claiming he was HIV positive and demanding that she return the dental work he allegedly financed. In response, Ruth dramatically posted a video of herself plucking out the tooth and returning it to him via a boda boda rider.
Mulamwah then claimed he had already sent Ruth’s explicit video to her father, an action that triggered even more backlash. In the midst of the storm, he took time to revisit his past relationship with Carol Sonnie, blaming Ruth for its failure and apologizing for leaving Carol.
This messy saga has not only played out in full view of the public but also served as a cautionary tale about the consequences of mixing personal conflict with social media warfare.
