Nominated Samburu Senator Hezena Lemaletian has called off her engagement just months after announcing it, following a traditional vetting process that revealed concerns about her suitor. The young lawmaker shared in a detailed social media post that the decision came after her family elders conducted a background check, an important step in Samburu culture before marriage.
Senator Lemaletian explained that the suitor’s initial proposal was considered an ambush, known locally as “siamu,” which prompted her family to follow the customary procedure of thoroughly vetting the man. The background check, a vital tradition within the Samburu community, is intended to ensure that the suitor meets the family’s standards and values. However, the results of the vetting were unsatisfactory to the elders.
As a result, the elders stopped the marriage process immediately. Despite the suitor having paid a dowry of KSh 100,000, the elders refunded the entire amount, indicating their rejection of the proposal. Lemaletian expressed her appreciation for the elders’ involvement, emphasizing their role in safeguarding her well-being and honoring cultural customs.
She also addressed circulating rumors suggesting that she was already married, dismissing them as false and malicious. The senator made it clear that she would not be marrying the man in question and expressed gratitude to her family for their support, particularly highlighting the elders’ guidance in the absence of her father.
Lemaletian’s decision has drawn various reactions from the public, with many praising her courage and respect for tradition. Some commentators applauded her for making a bold and self-respecting choice, while others encouraged her to move on and channel her energy positively. Several expressed support for her adherence to cultural practices and condemned any slanderous remarks that might arise from the situation.
Among the supportive voices, one remarked on the importance of respecting tradition and warned against speaking ill of her during this difficult period. Another highlighted her straightforwardness and wondered why some people struggle to understand her position, acknowledging the challenges she faces as a woman of beauty, intelligence, and grace.
The senator’s engagement had been announced in late 2024, generating public interest and anticipation. However, the traditional customs and family elders’ careful vetting have ultimately influenced the outcome, demonstrating the continuing importance of culture and community involvement in marriage decisions within Samburu society.
Senator Lemaletian has also warned that any further false claims or slander regarding her relationship would be met with legal action, underscoring her resolve to protect her reputation and personal life.
In related news, Kevin Muasya, son of Wiper Party leader Kalonzo Musyoka, recently got married in a vibrant traditional wedding that beautifully blended love and cultural heritage. The celebration was attended by prominent figures and marked a joyful occasion for the family and community alike.
Senator Hezena Lemaletian’s experience reflects the deep respect for customs and traditions that continue to shape personal and family decisions in many Kenyan communities. Her public handling of the situation has highlighted both the challenges and strengths involved in balancing modern life with cultural heritage.
