Friends, family, and fans gathered on Sunday, November 16, at CFF Church to honor the life of celebrated gospel singer Betty Bayo, who passed away on Monday, November 10, after a battle with acute myeloid leukaemia. The memorial service was filled with raw emotion, but one tribute stood out for its heartbreaking honesty—delivered by Betty’s close friend and fellow gospel artist, Shiru wa GP.
“You Died Thinking Everyone Hated You” — Shiru wa GP’s Painful Revelation
While speaking through tears, Shiru wa GP opened up about a painful truth Betty carried during her final days. Despite her fame, success, and the love she inspired through her ministry, Betty believed she was disliked, especially due to the harsh trolling she endured on social media.
“You died thinking that everyone hated you,” Shiru said emotionally.
“You were traumatized by social media bullying. Even in your hospital bed, you were terrified of being mocked for your illness and suffering.”
Shiru’s words painted the picture of a woman who suffered quietly behind her smile. She revealed that Betty feared the cruelty of online comments so deeply that it tormented her even while she was hospitalized.
A Plea for Kindness Toward Betty’s Children
In her tribute, Shiru also directed her compassion toward Betty’s children, Sky and Danny, praying that they would never endure the cruelty their mother faced.
“I hope your children will never go through the pain you endured online and in society. I pray they will be treated with kindness for God’s sake.”
Her message echoed across the church, stirring deep reflection among attendees and online viewers following the livestream.
“If Only You Could See How Loved You Are”
Shiru’s tribute also aimed to reassure her late friend—posthumously—that her fears were unfounded.
“My friend, if only you could see how much people loved you. The country and the world are celebrating you. Your music and ministry cannot be wiped out by death. You should never have left us.”
Her words resonated with many Kenyans online, who flooded social media with messages acknowledging the devastating effects of cyberbullying.
Son Danivictor’s Emotional Tribute
Earlier in the service, Betty’s young son, Danivictor, moved the congregation as he honored his mother’s memory. He described her as a perfect, devoted mother whose love shaped every part of his life.
He vowed to look after his sister Sky and his father, promising to preserve Betty’s legacy and ensure her values continue to guide their family.
A Legacy of Music, Ministry, and Unseen Strength
Betty Bayo’s sudden passing has left a deep void in the Kenyan gospel music community.
While her music touched thousands, her story—as revealed by Shiru—also shines a light on the silent emotional battles many face behind the scenes.
Her life and legacy now serve as a powerful reminder of the need for:
- Kindness online
- Empathy toward public figures
- Support for mental and emotional well-being
Betty’s voice, her ministry, and her love remain unforgettable.
And through her children, her music, and the memories shared by those who loved her, her light continues to shine.
