Kenyan TikToker Becky Akinyi has made a bold and emotional decision to cut off her family, citing years of emotional and financial strain that left her mentally drained and stuck in life. Now based in Dubai, the content creator shared a heartfelt message online, expressing deep frustration over the constant burden she has carried on behalf of her relatives.
In her lengthy post, Becky opened up about how she has been the sole provider for her family for years, sacrificing her personal growth and happiness to ensure their comfort. Despite these efforts, she feels unappreciated, overlooked, and unsupported. The emotional weight of always being the caregiver, she explained, has taken a toll on her mental health and stifled her ability to progress in life.
“I’m cutting y’all off because y’all are dragging me backward and draining my mental health,” she wrote. “I want you guys to assume I was never born or maybe I died and start taking care of yourselves without me.” Becky reflected on missed opportunities and stagnant progress in her life, admitting that she has done “crazy things” in attempts to help her family — sacrifices she now feels went unnoticed and unreciprocated.
She revealed she has been undergoing therapy to work on her mental well-being and stated that her decision is part of prioritizing her peace and healing. Becky noted that no one from her family ever checks on her or shows concern for her own struggles, despite her tireless efforts to support them.
Nearly 30 years old, Becky expressed deep regret over the lost time and unfulfilled personal milestones. She mentioned how close she feels to disappearing completely from the online world, even contemplating deactivating her social media accounts to escape the emotional pressure.
In her emotional outburst, Becky made it clear that she no longer considers herself to have a family. She asked her followers not to question her actions if they ever come across a family member in distress. “From now on I don’t have a family. I’m done,” she declared firmly.
Her candid message resonated with many online, sparking a wave of support from followers who shared their own experiences with toxic family dynamics. Some applauded her bravery for speaking out and setting boundaries for the sake of her mental well-being.
One user commented that family can sometimes be the most toxic element in one’s life and agreed that protecting one’s peace should always come first. Another echoed the sentiment, stating that putting oneself first is crucial and that help should only be extended when truly necessary. Many praised her decision to seek therapy and make tough choices that prioritize self-care and mental stability.
Aside from her family struggles, Becky has previously opened up about her personal life and relationships. She once revealed that she chooses to date women due to painful experiences she endured while dating men in the past. Her first romantic relationship with a woman offered her a sense of safety — until it ended in betrayal.
Becky’s story has struck a chord with many who find themselves in similar situations — caught between cultural expectations and personal well-being. Her decision to finally put herself first serves as a powerful reminder of the importance of boundaries, mental health, and the courage to walk away from unhealthy family dynamics.
