Kenyan entertainer VJ Patelo has spoken out following a viral video showing his wife, Diana popularly known as Dee slapping him in public. The incident, which occurred at what appeared to be a nightclub, has triggered widespread debate on social media about respect in relationships, domestic violence, and the pressures couples face under the public eye.
The clip, which circulated widely online, captures a tense exchange between the couple just weeks after their lavish wedding, which was hailed as a “fairytale union” and attended by high-profile celebrities. In the video, Dee is seen pointing at Patelo as they argue. When Patelo leans in, seemingly to whisper something to her, she delivers a sharp slap across his face. The reaction of onlookers, combined with the intimacy of the moment, quickly fueled discussions across platforms.
Responding to the controversy, Patelo downplayed the incident, suggesting it was a misunderstanding that had been blown out of proportion. However, his remarks were met with skepticism and criticism, with many Kenyans insisting that the matter should not be dismissed. Online users voiced concern over the normalization of abusive behavior, emphasizing that domestic violence should be taken seriously regardless of gender.
“This isn’t about clout or celebrity gossip it’s about respect and safety in relationships,” one user commented. Others argued that Patelo’s attempt to brush off the altercation reinforced harmful stereotypes that minimize violence against men.
The backlash highlights a broader conversation in Kenya about how society views domestic abuse, particularly when men are the victims. Traditionally underreported, cases of violence against men often fail to attract the same urgency, with cultural expectations pressuring victims to remain silent.
For many fans who celebrated Patelo and Dee’s glamorous wedding, the viral video has been a sobering reminder that relationships, even those admired publicly, can face serious challenges behind closed doors. The contrast between their recent nuptials and the nightclub confrontation has left supporters grappling with a difficult truth: love stories are not always as perfect as they appear online.
As the debate continues, the incident has underscored the importance of addressing domestic violence in all its forms and challenging the culture of silence around it.
