A chilling account shared by Kenyan TikToker Wangari has captured nationwide attention after she recounted how a first date nearly turned deadly. The young woman revealed that the man she went out with attempted to strangle her — an experience she had kept private for years. Her decision to speak out has inspired many, including celebrated actress Kate Actress, who praised Wangari for turning pain into purpose.
Trust and Betrayal
Wangari met the man through her first cousin, which initially gave her a sense of safety. Her cousin, who operates a shop in Nairobi’s CBD, introduced her to the man, who appeared harmless and suggested a casual outing together.
“I agreed because my cousin was supposed to be there too,” Wangari explained. “That gave me confidence that I would be safe.”
A Date That Turned Dangerous
Things took a dark turn when her cousin became unreachable on the day of the date. The man suggested moving to another location, and after Wangari drank a single glass of wine, she lost consciousness. She later awoke in the man’s house with her own belt around her neck.
“He was shocked that I woke up,” she recounted. “I grabbed the belt with all my strength — thank God it was a cheap one, or I wouldn’t have been able to fight him off.” Wangari managed to escape and later processed the trauma over several years before speaking publicly.
Viral Impact and Public Support
The TikTok video quickly went viral, drawing empathy and admiration from Kenyans nationwide. Actress Catherine Kamau, popularly known as Kate Actress, commended Wangari’s courage for shedding light on the dangers many women face and for using her voice to potentially save others.
Lessons on Safety and Instinct
Wangari acknowledged that recounting the incident was emotionally taxing, yet she stressed that sharing her story could prevent similar experiences for others. “I didn’t know better then,” she said. “But if my story can help even one person, it’s worth it.”
Her testimony has sparked widespread discussion on social media about women’s safety, the importance of trusting one’s gut, and the critical role of intuition in preventing harm. Wangari’s bravery serves as a stark reminder that awareness and instinct can be key to survival.
