Citizen TV anchor Rashid Abdalla has ignited discussions online after sharing candid insights about honesty and small deceptions in dating and marriage. Speaking alongside his wife and co-host Lulu Hassan during a live broadcast, Rashid suggested that a certain level of dishonesty is often inevitable when pursuing a long-term relationship.
Personal Anecdotes Highlight the Role of Small Lies
Rashid recounted a personal story from his early dating days with Lulu. After dining at an Indian restaurant, he experienced stomach pains from the food but lied when Lulu later asked about the meal to avoid upsetting her. “If you are a very truthful person, you will not get married. You have to lie either in your words or actions,” he explained, illustrating his belief that minor omissions or adjustments can help maintain harmony in relationships.
Advice on Choosing a Compatible Partner
During the discussion, Rashid advised women to seek partners who appreciate women, suggesting that such men are better able to recognize qualities that support a long-term relationship. The exchange, infused with humor, prompted viewers to reflect on the balance between honesty, tact, and compatibility in partnerships.
Social Media Reactions
Reactions from Kenyans were lively and mixed. Some appreciated Rashid’s transparency, while others found his perspective cheeky or controversial. Comments included:
- Adija Wa Ken: “Unaulza pia nabado unadanganywa”
- Morris Limo: “Ashasema ni lazima kudanganya so usingojee tena jibu hapo”
- Thomas Imboka: “These couples are strong in character”
- Meshack Mwaita: “Mkuu ameruka swali ki Petero. Boychild and the entire generation is proud of him”
Rashid and Lulu’s Partnership
Rashid and Lulu are admired not only for their on-screen chemistry but also for their personal partnership. In March 2025, Lulu revealed that both earn the same salary at Citizen TV, sparking discussion on professional equality. The couple first met during a difficult period in Lulu’s life, shortly after the passing of her mother, and began working at Royal Media on the same day, marking the start of both a personal and professional journey together.
Conclusion
Rashid Abdalla’s remarks have reignited conversations about honesty, compromise, and the nuances of building lasting relationships. While some critics question whether his perspective encourages dishonesty, others view his comments as a humorous and relatable reflection on the realities of dating and marriage, emphasizing the give-and-take necessary for successful partnerships.
